The 640383-4: The 0.156" (3.96mm) pitch sets the board layout and the mating connector family — this header accepts the MTA-156 crimp receptacle housing (sold separately). The 4-position single-row layout means the mating half must also be 4 circuits, same pitch, unshrouded.
Current rating: it depends on the wire
For a given wire size, derate per the MTA-156 application note; the tin-plated mating face is rated for moderate current and moderate cycle life, not high-power busbar duty.
